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Fatima Ashna — Psychologist, Schema Therapist, Course Educator, Author

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Conceptual illustration of changing deep and recurring patterns through schema therapy

What Is Schema Therapy? A Clear Guide to Schemas, Modes, and Change

August 29, 2026

11 min

Learn what schema therapy is, how schemas and modes work, what happens in sessions, who it may help, and what current evidence can—and cannot—show.

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Schema Therapy

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Schemas

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Schema Modes

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Psychotherapy

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Emotional Patterns

Why the Same Emotional Patterns Keep Repeating

Why the Same Emotional Patterns Keep Repeating

July 12, 2026

5 min

A schema therapy view of why familiar emotional reactions return—and how awareness makes the loop visible enough for a different response to become possible.

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Schemas

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Self-awareness

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Change

Understanding Attachment Needs in Adult Relationships

Understanding Attachment Needs in Adult Relationships

July 5, 2026

6 min

How attachment needs for closeness, safety, autonomy, and reassurance show up beneath everyday conflict—and how naming them makes a more secure connection possible.

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Attachment

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Connection

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Communication

The Inner Critic and Unrelenting Standards

The Inner Critic and Unrelenting Standards

June 28, 2026

4 min

When unrelenting standards and the inner critic stop guiding growth and begin tying worth to performance—feeding shame, exhaustion, and the sense that nothing is ever enough.

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Inner Critic

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Perfectionism

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Self-compassion

Emotion Coaching: Helping Children Feel Understood

Emotion Coaching: Helping Children Feel Understood

June 20, 2026

4 min

How seeing a feeling, naming it, and holding a warm limit helps a child not be left alone in a hard emotion—and gradually grow language, trust, and choice.

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Parenting

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Emotions

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Connection