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Fatima Ashna — Psychologist, Schema Therapist, Course Educator, Author

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Conceptual illustration comparing therapist-guided hypnosis with independent self-hypnosis

Hypnosis vs. Self-Hypnosis: What Is the Difference?

September 25, 2026

8 min

The key difference between hypnosis and self-hypnosis is who guides the practice. Explore the roles of a therapist, training, recordings, and individual needs.

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self-hypnosis

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clinical hypnosis

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hypnotherapy

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suggestion

Conceptual illustration of emotional distance and a bid for understanding in the emotional deprivation schema

What Is the Emotional Deprivation Schema in Relationships?

September 24, 2026

5 min

The emotional deprivation schema is an expectation that care, understanding, or support will be missing. Learn its signs, how to assess your relationship, and what may help.

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emotional deprivation

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schema therapy

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relationships

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emotional needs

Conceptual illustration of focused attention, awareness, and personal agency during clinical hypnosis

What Is Hypnosis? The Science, What a Session Feels Like, and Common Myths

September 9, 2026

13 min

What is hypnosis, and what happens during a session? Learn how clinical hypnosis uses focused attention and suggestion, whether you remain in control, where evidence supports its use, and what common myths get wrong.

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hypnosis

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clinical hypnosis

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hypnotherapy

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suggestion

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self-hypnosis

Conceptual illustration of abandonment fears and building security in relationships

What Is the Abandonment Schema? From Fear of Being Left to Building Safety in a Relationship

September 2, 2026

11 min

What is the abandonment schema, and how does it show up in close relationships? Signs, origins, three coping styles, and a path for working with the fear of being left.

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Abandonment schema

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Abandonment trap

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Romantic relationships

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Fear of being left

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Schema therapy

Schema Modes: A Clear Map of Inner States

Schema Modes: A Clear Map of Inner States

August 31, 2026

9 min

Schema modes are temporary emotional, cognitive, and behavioral states—not separate personalities. A map of four mode families, how they differ from schemas, and how to name what is active now without turning it into an identity.

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Schema Modes

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Schema Therapy

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Self-awareness